About OKMAN

empathetic mens counsellor

I get it because I’ve been there

Hi, I’m Andy, and I know firsthand the power of therapy and men’s work. Like many men, I once carried my struggles alone, believing I had to figure everything out myself. But through my own journey in therapy, I’ve learned that connection, self-awareness, and honest conversations can help bring clarity and a deeper sense of peace.


I created this space because I know how hard it can be to ask for help—but I also know the freedom that comes from doing the inner work. Whether you’re navigating stress, relationships, purpose, or just the weight of life, you don’t have to do it alone. My mission is to support men in breaking through barriers, finding clarity, and living with more confidence and authenticity.


I also know what it’s like to wrestle with big questions—about identity, purpose, and even faith. Questioning what you’ve been taught or what you once believed can feel unsettling, especially when you were once so certain. But doubt isn’t a weakness—it’s part of growth. Whether you’re deconstructing old beliefs, searching for deeper meaning, or trying to reconcile faith with your personal experiences, you don’t have to do it alone.


For over a decade, I’ve been running men’s groups, creating spaces where guys can speak openly and support each other without judgment. In that time, I’ve seen the patterns, struggles, and unspoken pressures that so many men carry. I know how hard it can be to open up, but I’ve also seen the transformation that happens when men have the right space to do so. No matter where you’re at, you’re not alone in what you’re feeling, and there’s a way forward.


This space isn’t about “fixing” you or giving you all the answers—it’s about providing the tools, space and support to help you find your own. If you’re ready for that journey, I’m here to walk it with you.